The Hasidic Judaism argues that the power of seeing is greater than the power of hearing. Scientific research has proven this. Of all the five senses, is seen most strongly, while the rest, but so is 5%. The Torah distinguishes between dream based on prophecy via hear and see through. Let's see how the Torah is opposite dreams and how we can apply them in our marriage.
Jewish marriage therapists recommend to positively daydream about marriage. Clients are asked to talk about positives of marriage, both past and present. Even better is to create visual images. If you can remember or imagine, you can generate an improvement a positive interaction with your partner. With clients who have a good marriage will strengthen this marriage.
But what about those partners who have an unhappy marriage? Unfortunately, many have quit to imagine how their marriage could be if they were lucky, or they can barely remember successful moments from the past. They avoid doing so, because it increases the pain. Yet Jewish therapists encourage their clients to do just that.
How do you want your marriage look like?
?? How would you like how your wedding looked ??? If you have at least one positive interaction with your partner can imagine or remember, you can generate an improvement, a desire to create good will and a possible plan of action that can contribute to a positive feeling for your partner. When, however, swallowed up by the conflict, even with your imagination no energy for a positive movement. Therefore advise therapists to take time for such positive 'daydreaming'. Immerse yourself in it and look at the results. The pain will not disappear suddenly, but you give 'peace a chance'. Therefore, you can fulfill God's dream of a happy marriage. He will fulfill your dream and bring salvation we are promised to see a world that is filled with the knowledge of God.
A happy marriage by dreams - Jewish view