Many people seem to have much trouble with changes that occur in their lives. The one panics, the other is restless and someone else is completely out of his doing. Why is this so? Where did this come from? Why are we afraid of change? It is all explained. Take control of your own life! A bed and breakfast in France. A resort in South Africa between the elephants, lions and giraffes. A lounge bar between the palm trees on the beach in Hawaii. Or a cozy hotel with purebred ?? s cabin in Sweden?
We humans love because normally not change. We want rhythm, regularity, steadiness. Change puts things z ?? s head and makes us insecure. It often brings us off balance. That is also the reason why we humans sometimes certain things but take for granted and just simply swallow, purely to avoid change.
The fear of change not only plays a role in terms of emigration or a new job. Also in the field of love this plays a crucial role. How often you do not hear that someone in a relationship the other ?? who has peed next to the pot ?? forgive? Practically everyone would wonder whether you are good at your head to continue. Probably until you possibly ever get into this position. This situation must be, moreover, not be reduced to a basal conclusion that this is purely has to do with avoidance of change. However, it plays a role. What happens if you decide otherwise? Then you'll probably end up in the Unknown. A black, a field that makes you anxious. You fall into a hole. We choose then often to continue. Keep everything as it was. The old familiar. Blinders on and look ahead.
Everyone has moments when change occurred. Look at the moments of change where you have had a share in. Changes that you have made in your life. To choices you have made in your life. What are the changes you made on good and less good things? What prevails there; the advantages or disadvantages?
Change can feel like a liberation. Sometimes when you do it, it can all feel that way. But I think you have this feeling more often only after some time when you look back, reflecting on situations from the past and present.
Changes: fear or challenge?