Was it used to be that the group arrived after this phase ?? ?? was to establish the family to get a steady job and take care especially for posterity, very large ?? now it is more nuanced. We plant our still continuing, but we experienced that life is more than mature, have children and look after the family. This automatically also brings more changes and most people go through those changes, you more or less seeketh not flawless. Is that bad? No ?? but how do you make sure that you are as simple as possible is going through?
What many people do have in common is that we like to have control over the situation. We have a concrete or less concrete plan and that needs interpretation. Depending on the person controlling role can be very emphatically played out and that's exactly where the crux is in respect of the right come through change processes.
"The journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step." Laozi
Go with the flow
To follow the flow of life, many people feel as loose sand or on loose sand makes you walk a little more to the left and right can slide your feet. For the control freak, as we have the man or woman who has actually mapped out the entire path, often called something similar ?? ?? not done.
But this also means that you sometimes against the flow're rowing and everyone knows that it is hard rowing. Does that tell you anything but to let go? No of course not. What you have in mind, you may well maintain. It is only there that changes that come your way, perhaps come up with a reason in your path. Go through it, learn from it and move again makes life easier, then there costs-what-cost resist it if it does not exactly fit in your mapped out plan.
It's actually three issues, namely:
- You reach final destination.
- The way you do this.
- How long is your path.
It sounds so obvious, but it is not. Many people still have that goal in mind and work towards a time when they really going to enjoy ?? ??. However, they also forget the road to enjoy it to. Sometimes, unfortunately, mean that we do not reach the final destination. Though have you enjoyed your life? You have a certain time limit in mind to formalize these changes in a later step, but what now is if for example one year lasts longer? These are all questions that play a role in the process of change and where you go to yourself honestly must answer.
Changes come your way, but only when you're ready, this change gives you something concrete. Is that so important release control? To some extent yes, but try in the process of change mainly stay close to yourself. How do you experience the change? Where you NOT to approach rationally, but feel what that change does to you. Maybe it's something unexpected that comes your way, which feels really good. Only until you experience that, at the moment you have to open up. Opening up work until you reach the tunnel vision of the preferred Now the goal, just release. Make that just a little bit wider scope and therefore looking left and right where you are as a person, how you react to environment etc.
In short, real changes you will experience not only with your head but with your own body and you do throughout your life. Dare to rely on it is a nice first step!